How to be German in 50 easy steps: A guide from Apfelsaftschorle to Tschüss
Author: Adam Fletcher
Date: 2013-07-10T11:53:31+00:00
Keywords: Humor; Form; Comic Strips & Cartoons
Description: Breakfast lavishly, pre-book all your holidays years in advance, dress sensibly and obey the red man! «How to be German» presents all the little absurdities that make living in Germany such a pleasure. It’s required reading for all Ausländer and for Germans who sometimes have the feeling they don’t understand their own country. We learn why the Germans speak so freely about sex, why they are so obsessed with «Spiegel Online» and why they all dream of being naked in a lake of Apfelsaftschorle. At the end, the only thing left to say to Adam Fletcher’s love letter to Germany is «Alles klar!» This
Publisher: C.H.Beck
Rights: All rights reserved

ABOUT THE BOOK

Breakfast lavishly, pre-book all your holidays years in advance, dress sensibly and obey the red man! How to be German presents all the little absurdities that make living in Germany such a pleasure. It’s required reading for all Ausländer and for Germans who sometimes have the feeling they don’t understand their own country. We learn why the Germans speak so freely about sex, why they are so obsessed with Spiegel Online and why they all dream of being naked in a lake of Apfelsaftschorle. At the end, the only thing left to say to Adam Fletcher’s love letter to Germany is ‚Alles klar!’

This e-book is also available in German: Wie man Deutscher wird in 50 einfachen Schritten. Eine Anleitung von Apfelsaftschorle bis Tschüss. The printed edition has been published as a bilingual turn-around book.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Adam Fletcher is a thirty-year-old, bald Englishman living in Berlin. When not writing books and articles, he mostly spends his days dreaming up a whole range of largely unsuccessful products for his business The Hipstery, eating chocolate and napping. He dedicates this book to his Ossi girlfriend Annett, since she dropped about 18,000 hints that he should do so and he’d really just like a little peace and quiet now. How to be German started its life as an online blog series, which much to Adam’s surprise has been read more than one million times, generating thousands of comments, both saying how right and how wrong he was (this directly resulted in the addition of Step 29: Klugscheißen). Adam has written about thirty new steps, expanded some old ones, had everything nicely illustrated and the result is this book. Find out more about Adam and how you can also contact him to tell him how right/wrong he is at http://hipstery.com.

ABOUT THE ILLUSTRATOR

Robert M. Schöne is a German freelance graphic designer and hermit. Formerly a mayoral candidate for the city of Pirna, he now mostly spends his time collecting obscure fonts and dolphin-themed clipart. He has successfully completed 37 of How to be German’s 50 steps, but flat out refuses to wait at the red Ampelmännchen or get a ‘real’ job.

INTRODUCTION

‹Would you like to move to Leipzig?›

‹I don’t know where it is,› I said.

‹It’s in East Germany.›

‹Oh. Err. Yeah, why not.›

This was the conversation that resulted in me moving to Germany. I was standing in a bedroom of my parents’ house in Cambridge, England. Talking on the phone to the person who’d become my boss. It was the unusually warm summer of 2007. I’d finished university just a few weeks before, and had already found a very nice job, which would mean I could live with my parents and clear some university debt. Which may have sounded very sensible in theory, but was not working out so well. After just two weeks of having my washing done and my meals cooked for me, I was already going stir-crazy. Probably, even if the voice at the other end of the phone had said, ‹Leipzig is an icy cave in Siberia, there is no WiFi,› I would have still answered, ‹Oh. Err. Yeah, why not.›

I always knew I’d move abroad. I never felt quite at home in England. A place where you have to apologise for being interested in things that aren’t football-shaped or served in pint glasses. A place that excels in small talk. A place where I’d always found it hard to make good friends. I’m sure that’s not everyone’s experience, but it was mine. So I knew I’d leave, but I never guessed it would be to Germany. The country was never really on my radar. I knew roughly where it was, geographically speaking. We’d even learnt a little bit about it at school. An education of it that started in 1918 and ended in 1945. Even when I’d backpacked through Europe the previous summer, visiting seven or eight countries surrounding it, I never even considered going to it. Like I said, it was just never really on my radar.

Until, on a bit of a whim, as a result of that phone call and armed with little more than my own ignorance, I moved there. It was great. It was just so great. My first year in Germany was, without doubt, the most enjoyable of my life. Far more warmth, hospitality and good humour was shown to me by the kind Germans who adopted me than I ever deserved. Some six years later, I’m still proud to call many of them my friends. First Leipzig and then Berlin are the only two places I’ve ever loved living in enough to call them a clichéd little word like home. It would be easy to dismiss this book as just some stupid Ausländer making fun of German stereotypes. I hope it doesn’t come across that way. I hope my affection for German people and culture shines through any mockery or jest. That the weight of the punch lines is distributed fairly across myself, the English and finally, where appropriate, German culture. This country has so much going for it and so much to be proud of. Yet paradoxically, patriotism of any kind is taboo.

Well, if you’re not allowed to do it, I’ll do it for you. I’m proud to be an honorary German. If you want to be one, too, the fifty short steps in this guide might just help you. Let’s begin …

1. PUT ON YOUR HOUSE SHOES

So, here we are then, my little Ausländer. Your first day as an aspiring German. You’ll have woken up in your bed, where you were nestled safely in a firm, practical mattress. Now, you’ll need to carefully make up your half of the bed. You should be sleeping in a double bed made up of two single mattresses and two single duvets; what it lacks in nocturnal romance, it more than makes up for in practicality, the most prized of German possessions.

Now, careful! Don’t step off the Bettvorleger yet, there is a very high chance that the floors will be ever so slightly colder than you would expect! So cold that you might go into some kind of morning shock. That’s why you need house shoes! They are staunch requirements of Germanism.

I would like to be able to tell you why Germans are so in love with their house shoes. I’ve asked several but still have no definitive answer. Not because they’ve not told me, but because the answer is so incredibly unromantic, sensible, practical and boring that my happy little barefoot brain has no idea where to store information of that nature and so just gives up committing it to memory.

2. EAT A LONG BREAKFAST

Coming from England, I was very surprised to see how important the kitchen is to the German people. The English tend to treat it purely as a room of function, like the toilet, only with a fridge. You get in, do what you’ve got to do, get out. The living room is the heart of the home.

For the Germans, it’s a different story. They are happiest spending the most time in their kitchens. It’s the most practical room in the house. You have a table, water, coffee, food, radio, and serious, posture-encouraging seating. They’ve correctly realised that if trouble does come calling, they’ll be best prepared for it by holing up in their kitchens.

German breakfasts are not meals but elaborate feasts. If it’s a weekend, every square inch of the table will be smothered in an assortment of meats, cheeses, fruits, jams, spreads and other condiments. It’ll look like someone broke in and, while hunting for valuables, just tipped the contents of all the cupboards onto the table.

The first time I experienced breakfast in a German WG it lasted so long that I drifted off into a sort of breakfast coma, and they had to wake me with some Eszet, which is a sort of chocolate strip you put on bread. I didn’t know you could legally combine chocolate and bread. It was quite a revelation. Now I just eat Eszet with everything, and slowly I’ve learnt to eat more, and also slower, during the long, drawn-out German breakfasts.

The worst game show I’ve ever seen was an English one called Touch the Truck. Its premise, if I can be so generous as to call it that, was that lots of people touch a truck while the audience wait and watch, and then the last person to let go of the truck wins the truck. It sometimes feels like German breakfasts work on a similar premise, except the truck is breakfast and the prize is, well, actually, I’m not entirely sure what the prize is … having the minimum possible time until lunch, maybe?

3. PLANNING, PREPARATION & PROCESS

So far, so good. Look at you, you’re up early, you’ve got your radio on, no doubt some Depeche Mode is blasting out and you’re eating a slow and ponderous German breakfast. You’re acclimatising very well, young Ausländer.

Now you need to enter the headspace of the Germans. If you want to be one, you need to think like one, which is a big task and we’ll cover it in more detail in later steps. But, for now, start accepting the three central tenets of Germanism. The three P’s. Planning, Preparation, Process.

Being a good German is about understanding the risks, insuring for what can be insured, preparing for what cannot. You are your own life’s project manager. Plan and prepare. Make spreadsheets, charts and lists. Think about what you’re doing each day and how you can make it more efficient.

Is it possible you arrange your shoe storage so that the most used items are nearer to the top, reducing bending time? I don’t care if you’re seventeen, it’s taking you nearly a full minute to get your shoes on, buy a shoe horn! Optimise your processes!

Just because they call it spontaneity, doesn’t mean it can’t be scheduled. There’s a time and place for fun, and it’s to be pre-decided and marked in the calendar. All else is frivolous chaos. So sit down now and make a plan for the day, then the week, then the month. Then book your holidays until 2017. To make it easier, just go to the same place. How about Mallorca? All the other Germans go there. Must be something to it.

4. GET SOME INSURANCES

Everyone knows it’s a jungle out there. Hence why we created the phrase. So, plucky Ausländer, before you go out into that jungle and start swinging from its higher branches, it’s wise you be sensibly insured. Of course, Germans, being imaginative people, ran a little wild with the concept of ‹sensibly insured.›

Don’t be surprised if the Germans you meet all have personal insurance advisors. My girlfriend communicates with her insurance advisor more often than I do with my own mother. If someone invented insurance insurance – an insurance against not having the right insurance – we’d all be treated to the sight of 80 million people dying of happiness.

5. DRESS SERIOUSLY

Plan made for the day? Insurances in place? Great. Good work! Now it’s time to change out of your Schlumperklamotten and head outside to face the day head on. You’re going to need to get appropriately dressed.

*WARNING! AUSLÄNDER! WARNING!* Outside is this thing called nature. Nature is fickle and not to be trusted! It dances to its own illogical, changeable tune. Best dress on the safe side. You need – expensive outdoor clothing! After all, you’re going outdoors, and it’s called outdoor clothing, therefore it must be necessary.

At all times, you should be dressed for a minimum of three seasons. Get some of those funky Jack Wolfskin shrousers: the trousers that zip off into shorts. If there is even the slightest possibility you may at some point leave a pavement, be sure you are wearing high-quality hiking boots. The Germans consider anything else an act of ankle suicide.

6. SPEAK GERMAN

Every nation has done things it should be embarrassed about. Dark acts in its history. The Germans are no exception. You know of what I talk – the German language. Deutsch is mostly an incomprehensible jumble of exceptions. A dungeon designed to trap foreigners and hold them hostage, repeatedly flogging them with impenetrable and largely useless grammatical devices, whose only merit is to state in very, very explicit detail who has what and what is being done to whom, by whom.

The bad news is that for you to fully blend with the Germans, you’ll need to learn their language. In principle, it’s not that hard. It works in two stages: learning vocabulary and learning grammar. Learning vocabulary is fun. Most words are even similar to English thanks to our shared ancestry, so you’ll zip along for a while making great progress and really enjoying wrapping your tongue around such delights as Schwangerschaftsverhütungsmittel, Haarschmuckfachgeschäft, Muckefuck and Streicheleinheiten.

Then, confident at all the little snippets you’ve already accumulated, you’ll start learning the grammar, the putty that builds your mutterings into real, coherent German sentences. This is where you’ll start to feel cheated. German grammar is nonsense.

English, at least linguistically, has always been the biggest slut in the room. Giving and taking from other languages. It tries hard to make you like it. It keeps itself simple. My pet theory is that the Germans, despite their committed efforts, were not as successful as the English in their world power plays. So, unlike German, the English language has been forced, historically, to bridge the cultural and linguistic divides that lay between us and the countries we were conquering (sorry, colonising). Over time, we’ve had to smooth down the rougher edges of English, which is a poetic way of saying kicked out all the hard bits.

English has been forced to evolve in a way that German has not. Which is why German has retained the grammatical complexity of Old English, while English got busy dumbing itself down for the masses.

Take genders as an example. Present in Old English, but long since removed to everyone’s relief. Sadly, still stubbornly present in German in the form of der, die and das, yet they’re assigned utterly arbitrarily. Sure, there are some sort of vague guidelines about how word endings can suggest the gender, and some groupings, e. g. all days of the week and all months are der. That’ll help you with maybe 30 % of nouns. This still leaves 70 % that you’ll have to learn by heart so you can decline correctly. You can also decline to learn them if you like. See what I did there? Oh, how I amuse myself. Anyway …

You’ll waste much time memorising genders (PRO TIP: never learn a noun without its article, going back later and adding them in is very time-consuming and inefficient). Yet, without knowing the gender of the nouns, you can’t accurately decline the endings of the sentences’ nouns and adjectives. Which is utterly pointless anyway and does next to nothing to increase comprehension. Without it, though, you’ll say very embarrassing things like ‹einer großer Wasser,› instead of ‹ein großes Wasser.› I know. Cringeworthy.

Of course there are far harder languages to learn than German. That’s not my point. English also has its stupidities, like its staunch commitment to unphoneticism. The difference is that English is kind enough to be easy in the beginning, then it ramps up slowly and encouragingly, with minimal grammar. German just plonks you down in front of a steep mountain, says ‹Viel Spaß,› and walks off as you begin your slow, painful ascent.

When I first started learning the language, which mostly consisted of me getting nowhere and just sitting around bitching about it, I was gently reminded by a friend that some of the smartest things ever written were authored in this language. First you need only to respect it, later you can learn to like it.

7. OUTGESOURCED, DOWNGELOADED & UPGEGRADED

It’s the 15th century, and Russia is occupied by the Mongols. A peasant and his wife are out walking along a dusty road. A Mongol warrior on a horse pulls up alongside them and tells the Russian peasant he will now have sex with the Russian’s wife, while he is forced to watch. But, since there is a lot of dust on the ground, the Mongol tells the Russian that he must hold his balls throughout so that they do not get dirty. Once the Mongol warrior has finished, he returns to his horse and rides away. The Russian man’s wife is understandably distraught. She sits weeping, while the Russian peasant starts laughing and jumping around with joy. His surprised wife asks, ‹How can you be jumping with joy after what just happened?› The peasant answers ‹Oh, but it is I who had the last laugh, for his balls are now covered in dust!›

I think of this parable when I hear Germans use words like upgraden, getoastet, outgesourced and downgeloaded. Most Germans I know are fiercely protective of the German language. As if it were a flightless bird left to flounder amongst a pack of linguistic lions or a fragile egg that must be carefully protected from the onslaught of spatula-shaped Anglicisms. The kind of Anglicisms used by lazy marketers who want to make their slogans and marketing spiel that bit more exotic by peppering in some funny, foreign, mostly English jargon. I think this fear is a justified one. Languages have always borrowed from each other, but in future English, like a particularly enthusiastic team player, will give many more words to other languages than it takes from them, due to its position as the lingua franca.

But, my dear beloved Germans, when I catch you using words like outgesourced or downgeloaded, my heart sinks. Not only are you using the exact English word and spelling when you have perfectly good German equivalents, but you’re even going to the length of adding the English grammatical affix -ed to change the tense, which is not part of the German language. So now we’ve got an English word, English spelling, English grammar, but then, like an awkward final act of language patriotism, you’ve slapped the totally unnecessary German ge- prefix into the middle.

At these times, I’m reminded of that Russian, celebrating the smallest of victories in the face of an already lost war. ‹Oh, but it is the German language that’s had the last laugh, for it has got a ge- in the middle!›

8. OBEY THE RED MAN

I think the often exaggerated stereotype that Germans love to follow the rules all comes down to one, little, illuminated red man. Guardian and God of the crossing pedestrian. To dare challenge his authority and step gingerly out into a completely empty road when he is still red is to take a great personal risk.

Not of getting run over, of course. The road is completely empty after all. Bar being struck by an invisible car, you’re safe. No, what you really risk is the scorn, the tutting and the shouts of ‹Halt!› from nearby Germans. Who will now consider you an irresponsible, possibly suicidal, social renegade.

HALT! Await the green Ampelmännchen. Consider it an elaborate exercise in self-control. You’ll need all that self-control not to freak out and start shooting the first time you visit the Ausländerbehörde and find out they don’t speak English.

9. DRINK APFELSAFTSCHORLE

So, my most excellent, fearless Ausländer, it’s been a tough morning, right? Your commitment to assimilation thrills me. Let’s take a little break. Thirsty? I know just the drink …

Firstly, you must know, Germans fear any beverage that doesn’t fizz. It brings them out in a cold sweat. It’s a great comedic joy to watch tourists and foreigners in Germany buying water labelled ‹classic›, thinking that since ‹classic› water – the kind that has fallen from the sky since the dawn of time – has always been still, uncarbonated water, it must be the same here, right?

No! Millions of years of water history have been conveniently forgotten. ‹Classic› means carbonated, of course. You big silly. Learn to like it. If not, when visiting the homes of your new German friends, you’ll request tap water and they’ll look at you like you are some primitive savage they just found in the woods covered in a blanket of your own hair.

Related to this is Apfelsaftschorle. You know the scene in movies when people go to therapy and then the therapist asks them to create a happy place? A safe, tranquil spot they can turn to when the world gets too big and scary? Usually it’s a beach, or a rocking chair on the front porch of an idyllic childhood home, or something.

For Germans, that happy place is a lake of Apfelsaftschorle where they can swim naked. Tired after a long day of stamping and form filling, confronted with a fifteen-page long restaurant menu, baffled by the burdens of choice, they always retreat to their happy place and order Apfelsaftschorle. It’s steady. It’s reliable. It’s as classic as fizzy water.

For more than a century, Germans were smug with their discovery of fizzy water and their abundant breweries producing fine beers and ales. They didn’t believe it could get any better. Then some bright spark tried adding a little apple juice to that fizzy water, creating something that was equally refreshing, yet 6 % more fun! It was a near riot.

People were not ready. It was almost too fun. An all-night disco party for the taste buds. Of course, it won’t taste like that to you, with your funny foreign palate. Apfelsaftschorle will taste to you as it really is – a fractional improvement on fizzy water’s boring taste.

10. DRINK MIXED BEVERAGES

Buoyed by the great success of Apfelsaftschorle, a near universal – sorry, my mistake – exclusively domestic hit, the Germans have continued mixing drinks with great aplomb. Everyday it must be a Fest somewhere, right? It’d be only polite to make a punch, just in case. Whole bananas were even put directly into beer by Southern German Biermischgetränke radicals. Some thought that was too extreme. That a line of sanity, drawn long ago, had now been crossed. But the Germans were not done. They were just getting started, in fact. Everyone’s favourite sugary black porridge, Coke, would not be exempt. People said you couldn’t mix something as strong and sweet as Coke with something as strong and sweet as Fanta. It’ll be a mini-Hiroshima for the mouth. There’ll be riots in the supermarket. It’ll be madness.

No, the Germans replied, it’ll be Spezi.

11. EAT GERMAN FOOD

Is that the distant rumble of your stomach I hear? Worry not, my most favourite of foreign friends, in this section we’ll look – with all the enthusiasm I can muster – at the cuisine of this fine, fastidious nation …

It’s hard to discuss German cuisine without mentioning Wurst, at which point you’ll feel like I’m smacking you about the head with the stereotype stick. So I won’t. Wurst is important, but I think more for what it represents than how it tastes. Wurst is terribly boring. For a country to have elevated it so highly shows a startling lack of imagination. Which, once you’ve experienced even more of the German cuisine, you’ll have no problem in accepting.

Here, meat is the linchpin of most meals. Being a vegetarian here is probably about as much fun as being blind at the zoo. The only notable time of year is Spargel-Saison, where the country goes gaga as the almighty Spargel is waved around everywhere, like a sort of culinary magic wand, which coincidentally it does rather resemble.

In conclusion, German cuisine is to the world of food what the band Eiffel 65 is to the history of popular music: present, but largely a footnote.

12. KNOW YOUR POTATOES

Anyone who says the Germans lack imagination is wrong. They’ve just concentrated it in very specific areas, like outdoor clothing, bureaucracy, sentence-strangling compound words, mixed soft drinks and, perhaps most impressively, forms of potato. In most countries, potatoes come in the following basic forms: mashed, baked, boiled, fried and, that fickle modern wonder, wedged. Oh, amateurs. You can do so much more with the potato, as illustrated by the Germans, who’ve done everything possible to the potato, and possibly one or two things more.

To be German, you must memorise and regularly cook at least twelve different types of potato. Here, this simple little vegetable adopts so many forms, it’s become a kind of a dinner plate chameleon, effortlessly camouflaging into the spaces left in any Gericht.

Here is a not exhaustive list of German potato types: Salzkartoffeln, Bratkartoffeln, Kartoffelbrei, Kartoffelpuffer, Kartoffelklöße/-knödel, Kartoffelauflauf/-gratin, Kartoffelsalat, Kartoffelsuppe, Rösti, Ofenkartoffeln, Kroketten, Stampfkartoffeln, Kartoffelecken, Pellkartoffeln, Pommes frites, Petersilienkartoffeln, Rosmarinkartoffeln.

The list goes on, but I’m hungry now and there’s Schupfnudeln in the fridge. There should be some in yours, too. Off you go …

13. THE ANSWER IS TO BRING KARTOFFELSALAT

You are probably aware of the eminent Russian physiologist Ivan Pavlov and his work on the conditioning of dogs, who he trained to salivate on demand by his ringing a small bell. After finding dogs too easy and malleable to his whim, he set out to look for a tougher challenge, one that has until now received less attention. Discarding the bell and keen to work with people this time, he devised another ingenious experiment in conditioning, only this time on the entire nation of Germany. His goal: when anyone said to a German, ‹You’re invited to a party,› or ‹Let’s have a BBQ›, every German would instinctively think, ‹I’ll make a Kartoffelsalat!› Needless to say, if you’ve been to such an event and seen seven stacked Tupperware tubs of Kartoffelsalat and not all that much else, you’ll already know that his experiment was a perfect success.

14. EAT GERMAN BREAD

Anyone who doubts how seriously Germans take their bread is either a fool, me, or both, like me. For when I first posted some of these steps online, I neglected to mention German bread anywhere. It’s possible Germans can also insert yeast into emails, because all these angry ones kept rising to the top of my inbox.

Germans are serious about their bread. This is reflected in their bread, which is serious. As opposed to that fluffy white English nonsense, which they see as an unforgivable waste of yeast. A child’s finger painting masquerading as high art. It’s true that English bread is of the soft and cuddly persuasion. Sometimes I’m not sure whether to make a sandwich with it or just sort of climb in and have a little nap. It’s a bouncy castle for the taste buds. I can see how you wouldn’t like that. Frivolous. In comparison, upon seeing German bread, I have the urge to thump my chest and shout ‹Jawohl.› It packs quite the visual punch. Important is the weight (ideally more than an average newborn baby), the colour (rich and dark, like, err, um … swamp mud) and the texture (slightly damp concrete). If dropped, there is an expectation that it should shatter into a thousand pieces. The good news is that it’s very nutritious and filling. The bad news is, well, it tastes like German bread.

15. ‹MAHLZEIT!›

German has a reputation for being a no-nonsense, literal language. Whether for its nouns, like naming the nipple the thoroughly unromantic Brustwarze (‹breastwart›) or the rather too literal Antibabypille, or in its expressions, when sometimes it sounds like you are describing not your mood, but the mechanics of an invisible car: ‹Es läuft› (‹it runs›), ‹Es geht› (‹it goes›), ‹Es passt› (‹it fits›), ‹Alles in Ordnung› (‹everything’s in order›).

Those are good for a start, Ausländer, but to be truly German, you have to use the most literal and confusing greeting of all – ‹Mahlzeit!› You could translate ‹Mahlzeit› ›as a dish›, or more literally just as ‹mealtime.› When I first arrived in Germany and had lunch in the Kantine, seated and eating my meal, colleagues would arrive and then ‹Mahlzeit› me. Mahlzeit? Mahlzeit? Mealtime? Well, of course! You can see me eating. I’m literally right now eating my potato salad. I’m chewing it as we speak! I know it’s a little early, but I missed breakfast. Don’t judge me!

Only then you realise it’s not a question. It’s a redundant statement dressed up awkwardly, like a kid in its parents’ clothes, parading around as a greeting. So in the interests of assimilation you start using it. It sounds strange at first, but it’s actually quite fun, and then you learn that in many parts of Germany you can use it any time that you like! You can call people up at 4 a. m., when you know they are sleeping, and wish them mealtime. Genius. But then the novelty wears off and leaves you wanting more. You wonder why you can’t add -zeit to other activities and use those as a salutation, beyond just eating. But German literalism starts and stops when it feels like it. Gloves are Handschuhe (‹handshoes›), but a hat is not a Kopfschuh (‹headshoe›). See someone drinking? You can’t wish them ‹Trinkzeit›. Neighbours are having sex loudly again? It’s not acceptable to ring their doorbell and greet them with a hearty ‹Fickzeit!› Just ‹Mahlzeit,› alright. Got it?

16. HATE THE GEZ & GEMA

Full? Or as the Germans would say, satt? Excellent, so then, my fresh-off-the-Bahn friend, let’s leave food behind and look at some of the attitudes and special talents you’ll need to develop to become a true German.

Superman has Lex Luther, Luke Skywalker has Darth Vader, Batman has the Joker, and history is littered with the iconic rivalries of good and evil. Germans are no different. They’re engaging in a long drawn-out battle with their own arch nemeses – the GEZ & GEMA. Known collectively as the Spaßpolizei. Okay, I made that up, but they should be known collectively as the Spaßpolizei. GEZ is TV and radio, GEMA is music copyright. They’re responsible for collecting the license fees and distributing them fairly amongst the public TV channels and music artists. I’m sure they started as noble worthwhile causes, but then, like all bad guys, they switched. Getting drunk on their power and crossing to the dark side, becoming a giant, monopolistic pain in the collective German ass.

You don’t need to discuss with your German friends their opinions on either the GEMA or the GEZ. I’ll save you the time – they hate them. They imagine them as caped, camp villains, climbing down through the skylights of the Berghain to break up another Techno party. ‹Everyone having fun, are they? Looks like you’re all having fun! Who’s paying for this fun, then? Exactly! Thieves!› At which point there is an elaborate, evil laugh, the stereo is unplugged, and the lights are switched on. Partygoers’ fists are collectively raised and shaken. ‹Damn you, GEMA!!›

The battle against the GEZ (they’ve now changed their name to Beitragsservice) is over. In case you missed it, Germany lost. From 2013 every household now pays a non-negotiable monthly fee to them. The only good part of that is now the cat and mouse game of the GEZtapo knocking on our door to prove we have a TV or radio can stop. My girlfriend has a deep, deep paranoia about the GEZ stretching back to her student days. After we’d first met and I began staying over, she sat me down to explain my explicit legal rights, should I answer her door and it’s a GEZ agent standing there. Just in case I forgot, any time the doorbell rang she’d shout, ‹Careful, it could be the GEZ!› After I had founded a company here, they kept sending me letters. Eventually I relented and started paying them via bank transfer. I didn’t dare tell my girlfriend, however, since her hatred for them runs so deep she would be happier to hear that I remove € 17.98 from my wallet each month and set it on fire than give it to the GEZ.

17. LEARN HOW TO OPEN A BEER BOTTLE WITH ANYTHING BUT A BOTTLE OPENER

The bottle opener has existed in various formats since about 1738. The only logical reason why Germans can open bottles with just about anything, except bottle openers, must be that bottle openers didn’t arrive here until 2011. Since then they’ve been viewed with suspicion and anyone caught using one declared a witch and burnt at the stake. I remember there was a Website that listed a new way to open a beer bottle every day over the course of a whole year. Some said they had run out of ideas by the end when they suggested opening it on the edge of a turtle’s shell. Germans didn’t need to read the blog, however, as they knew all these ways already. Turtle’s shell? Easy, come on. Try and think of something a little more imaginative. Don’t you dare suggest a bottle opener. I’ve seen people here open bottles with their teeth, even one with their eye socket.

So, Ausländer, you need to learn at least ten ways. Two of which must be with a lighter and a spoon. Turtle shell method optional, but not discouraged.

18. SAY WHAT YOU MEAN

English is not about what you say, but how you say it. German is both, but more the former. So what Germans say tends to be direct and prepared with minimal ambiguity. Ruthlessly efficient, if you will. In English, for example, if you want someone to do something for you, you do not merely go up to that person and ask them to do something for you. Oh no. That would be a large faux pas of the social variety. Instead you must first enquire about their health, their family’s health, their children’s health, the weather, the activities of the previous weekend, the plans of the upcoming weekend, the joy or sorrow related to the outcome of the most recent televised football match, and only then, finally, can you say ‹by the way,› after which you can begin the actual point of the conversation, before reinforcing that you feel guilty for having to ask, and only if it’s no trouble, but would they be so kind as to possibly do this little thing for you. You will be eternally grateful.

Germans do not dance around the point in such elaborate, transparent displays of faux friendship. They just say ‹I need this, do it, by this date. Alles klar?› then walk off. Once you’ve practiced regularly getting to the point, you may find the way to be short but very enjoyable.

As for saying what you mean, Germans have rightly realised that sugar coating is best reserved for cakes. If I’m having one of my momentary delusions of grandeur, I know I can always rely on my German girlfriend to bring me swiftly back down to reality by saying something like ‹Get over yourself, we’re all born naked and shit in the toilet.›

19. SPEAK FREELY ABOUT SEX

It is a great joy to live in a society that deals with sex so frankly and without fuss. As if, oh I don’t know, it was a completely normal part of life. An act so common there is even compelling evidence our lame old parents engaged in it. Germans understand this. Sex, while perhaps dealt with a little clinically at times, is not a big deal and must not be treated as such. It’s like walking the dog or taking out the trash.

Nudity is extended the same perfunctory familiarity. Particularly around lakes in the East of the country, with their history of FKK. When I questioned one of my male colleagues on the need for such overt nakedness when any East German spots a body of water larger than a puddle, this was the reply: ‹If you’ve never swum naked with five of your best male friends, you haven’t lived!›

So, prudish foreigner, relax, put your inhibitions into storage and embrace this no-nonsense approach to nudity and sex. I’m sure you’ll find it to be very liberating.

20. DO NOTHING ON SUNDAYS

Picture the scene: An abandoned hospital. Someone wakes up in a hospital bed. The room is locked from the inside. They don’t remember how they got there. They are groggy. It’s quiet. Eerily quiet. They get up and leave the room, stepping gingerly out into the hall. There are no humans around. It feels like the end of the world. They venture outside to try and find signs of humanity. There is nothing. They start to wonder if they are the only human beings left on earth. Maybe it was a killer virus. It’s quiet, too quiet. Sounds familiar? Yes, this is the start of most zombie movies. It’s also a description of the average Sunday in Germany. At least in catholic or rural areas. A day in which washing your car is considered an act of vigilantism against the sacred Sonntagsruhe.

So clear your calendar. This is the day you get nothing done. Relax. Or go hiking. They seem to be the two primary and completely contradictory options. There is of course one exception, though. One Sunday activity that is compulsory for you to partake in:

21. WATCH TATORT

In my first WG (shared flat) we had a TV attached to a Skateboard that lived in a cupboard. It was only wheeled out once a week for a TV show called Tatort. Friends of my room-mates would come by, the TV would be set up in the kitchen, elaborate meals would be cooked and shared, then silence would descend. The Tatort ritual would begin.

If you dare to ask a German, ‹Is Tatort actually good?› the response is usually very amusing. You would think since they watch it with such rigid vigour, privately or as part of the public viewings in Kneipen, they must really love it. Yet, they usually don’t say yes. They make a shocked face, as if that’s a new question and they’ve not really thought about it before. It’s as if you had asked them, ‹Do you believe in gravity?› Then, usually, they’ll conclude that whether Tatort is good or bad is utterly irrelevant. Every culture has its inherited customs. For the Germans, it’s Sunday Tatort. So for you, it’s the same. Inherit it without question and with great enthusiasm. There is no other choice.

22. IT IS NOT TRUE UNTIL YOU’VE READ IT AT SPIEGEL ONLINE

Living here, you’ll notice Germans are not given to the spreading of rumour or hearsay. They prefer anecdotes born of peer-reviewed, scientific journals of fact. Gossip is for the inferior of mind. Anecdotes should begin with things like ‹Scientists say› or ‹It’s been proven that.› But there is one exception and that exception is Spiegel Online. Arriving in the office of my first job in Germany, nearly everyone’s monitor would be displaying the same red and black Website. So many, indeed, that for the first week I actually thought it was the company’s Intranet. Then I learned it was Spiegel Online, the place where things become true. Not because of the quality of their journalism, but just the vastness of the Website’s reach within Germany. It seems everyone reads Spiegel Online.

At lunch my colleagues would be in the kitchen, discussing what they’d read, safe in the knowledge that everyone else had already read it. But then in future, curiously, if the same topics came up again, they’d all suffer a form of Spiegel-amnesia, forgetting where they’d learnt this piece of information. I assume this is because noone wants to admit they are all reading the same thing. So instead they say things like ‹I read somewhere that …,› or ‹I can’t remember where I heard it, but …›

Next time that happens, you can gently remind them: you read it on Spiegel Online. It’s not true until it’s on Spiegel Online.

23. ALWAYS SEND FRIENDLY GREETINGS

It’s an accepted internet rule that you can say pretty much whatever you want, as long as you put:) at the end. LOL optional, but encouraged. This removes the option for the receiver (and joke’s victim) to be allowed to be offended. After all, there was a smiley face, it was a joke. If you are offended, that’s your fault, you should get a sense of humour. Germans have a similar rule for their communication, but they’ve substituted the smiley face for LG (‹lovely greetings/regards›, crudely translated) or MfG (‹with friendly greetings›), VG (‹many greetings›) or the highly innovative, new MvflG (‹with many friendly lovely greetings›), which I may or may not have just made up. You can be as mean and aggressive as you want, as long as your message is gift-wrapped in a parting LG or MfG, zum Beispiel:

‹Hallo Adam,

I really enjoyed your How to be German steps, and I’m German! However, you are wrong. Points 1, 52, 74, 1213, 835.534 are wrong. You also didn’t mention the Deutsche Bahn. How could you not have mentioned how much we Germans hate our Deutsche Bahn?!?! Unforgiveable. I hate you. I’m thinking now about sadistic, slow ways to kill you. I’m thinking about what I might do with your body. It would be a kind of toy for me, a play thing. There’s a high probability I’d pickle it. Your skin will make a fine cushion.

MvflG

Stefan›

I’m not even going to question the logic of signing off with the greeting, an act traditionally saved for the beginning. Just remember to sign off everything with MvflG and let’s move on.

24. PROST!!!

24 steps already? Wow, you’re almost half way through your quest for citizenship. How time has flown. I barely recognise you now. Let’s celebrate your progress with a drink! But first, there’s one awkward minefield of a German custom you’ll need to learn how to navigate – that is how to ‹Prost›.

I imagine prosting (saying ‹Cheers› before you drink) used to be fun. You’re in a group, with the luxury of enough money to buy this drink, enough time to devote to the drinking of it, enough friends that want to socialise and drink with you. Prosting is really an act of happy comradery. A short, sweet, clinky ‹Fuck you› to the world and its petty problems. When I first arrived here, I prosted casually as I would in England. Maybe we touched glasses, maybe not, maybe we just lifted them ever so slightly more than we would need to reach our mouths, tipped them in the direction of our friends, then drank. Or maybe not. Maybe we just drank. This is not acceptable here. All holders of all beverages must compete in a sort of awkward drinking dance, in which everyone must make very, very obvious eye contact with everyone else, in turn, and all glasses MUST touch all other glasses. Then, like in ice skating, judges, who’ve been watching from the periphery, hold up scorecards for all participants, showing how successfully they’ve taken part across a range of criteria such as ‹did they clink against every glass, in a logical, clockwise manner› and ‹duration and intensity of eye contact›.

25. DRINK BIONADE, BUY BIO

Upon arrival in this oh so foreign land, you’ll see many a German tipping back their heads and pouring into themselves curiously-coloured liquids from glass bottles marked Bionade. Keen to assimilate you’ll try it for yourself. After all, so many Germans are drinking it, so it must be good, right? Well, no, not really. It’s okay. It’s mostly taste bud indifferent, but in liquid form. You’ll wonder what all the fuss is about. I’ll tell you what all the fuss is about…

The Company Bionade, being marketing geniuses, include the word bio in their name. Germans have a built in must-buy reflex when confronted with any product that is labelled bio or contains the word bio. You could sell them a chocolate bar of children’s teeth if you called it duBIOus. Let me tell you why …

You see, supermarkets here are confusing places. You can’t find what you want. Everything seems to involve Quark. Faced with a wall of unknown brands you attempt to discern which the quality ones are. That is the point at which all the wheels fall off the wagon. Everything here is apparently of high quality. Or will at least tell you so on its packaging. Even the worst, cheapest, microwavable-in-sixty-seconds burger will claim to be premium. Or even super premium. Luxus. Deluxe. Super deluxe. Super luxus deluxe. In fact, it often feels as if there’s an inverse relationship between the quality of the product on the shelves of German supermarkets and the quality declared on the product.

So, a new category was needed, one that would represent the consumer apex, the pinnacle, a mark of unquestionable quality – bio. Hence the must-buy reflex. Which will continue working nicely at least until someone labels something super bio and the whole cycle starts again.

26. RECYCLE

Germans are passionate recyclers and so you must be as well. Probably because it combines three of their favourite things into one earth positive activity – environmentalism, organisation and anal retentiveness. Just try putting something made of paper in your German friend’s plastic bin. Alarms will be triggered. Lectures on appropriate recycling will be given. Friendships may be strained.

At the first company I worked for here, we had three separate bins for different types of rubbish. Of course, we used them as labelled. Those that did not recycle correctly were chastised loudly and then forever treated with caution, as if they were not people but sticks of dynamite that were bound to go off at some point. One day much to everyone’s disbelief the cleaner informed us that downstairs in the building’s central rubbish room they just combined all of our office’s waste from the three bins into one big bin. Mein Gott! Our recycling efforts were futile. You would think, armed with this knowledge and liberated from the hassle of sorting our rubbish, we just started to put everything in one bin in future, right? No. We continued to separate it just like before, using all three bins. Because that’s what you do. This is Germany.

27. STICK TO THE RULES

If you’ve been to the cinema here, you’ll know the seats come in two types and prices – neckache and non-neckache. Neckache is the first rows from the front, and to be at the back you’ve got to pay more. I’ve not seen tiered seat pricing in other countries. It’s a pretty horrible system when you consider that instead of just watching the film on your laptop, in your bed, you’ve gone to the effort of putting on your coat and shoes, leaving the house, going all the way to the cinema to pay nine euros to sit in an icy cold, dark room to watch a movie that won’t even end properly with a nice conclusive ‹happy ever after› like it did in the old days, because now everything has to be a trilogy, and then a prequel trilogy, and so on until before you notice it, you’re sitting down to watch Spiderman 417. Really cinemas should pay you for making all the effort to actually visit them, rather than charging you extra to sit in the back, but I’ve wandered off my original point …

Why I really like going to the movies in Germany is because it’s one of the rare times I have the pleasure of watching my German girlfriend break a rule. For a fleeting moment we’re not our normal lame selves, but are transformed into anally retentive, suitably dressed, tax paying Bonnie and Clydes. Why? Because we never pay for the expensive seats. But we always sit in them. Feel free to be greatly shocked now …

In the beginning, it was not easy to coax her to the back. In fact, she flat out refused. There was a system. Germans respect rules and systems, which is the point of this step and what you must learn. In this case, it’s a very capitalistic system, but a system and a rule nonetheless. A rule the majority of Germans follow. I have no doubt that if the average German entered a Kinosaal to find it completely empty, except for one other person who was sitting in their prescribed seat, they’d check their ticket five times, and then ask them to move.

Then I came up with a plan. When asked where I would like to sit by the ticket seller or when reserving online, I began picking the far left corner of the front row, which annoys her so much, she’s willing to break the rules and come with me to the back and an illicit premium seat. It does result in me getting hit several times, which I consider merely an acceptable cost of doing nefarious business. She accompanies me to the back with great trepidation. As if we were not merely defrauding the cinema of two euros, but defrauding the European Central Bank of millions in an elaborate heist involving safe crackers, gymnastic midgets and exploding pens. Once seated at the back, she refuses to relax until about half way through the movie when she’s absolutely certain the seats we’re in will not be claimed by any rightful owner. Until then she visibly squirms in her contraband seat every time the doors open, looks in genuine physical pain, and repeatedly says ‹I hate you, I hate you, I hate you.› I’m not sure what she means by that. I’ve no time to think about it, since I’m busy staring straight ahead and enjoying the movie from our vastly superior and neckache-free seats.

28. LOVE YOUR CAR

It’s very time consuming for German men to have to keep pulling their penises out for comparison against the other men they meet. It also tends to be rather distracting for the other people who are present. So they’ve evolved other ways to rank themselves, the favourite being cars. When my girlfriend told her father she had a new English boyfriend, his first question, before my name, age, job, interests, etc., was ‹What kind of car does he drive?› Germans are serious about their cars. They’re also pretty good at making them. Possibly those two things are related, but since I can’t think of any jokes in the linking of them, I’ll conveniently ignore that and just move to a reminder that if, like me, you know nothing more about cars than that they’re like bicycles but have two more wheels, you won’t fit in here. Research. Do an internship at BMW or Porsche. Watch Formula 1. Study the schematics for engines. Buy winter tyres for your car. I don’t care if you don’t have a car. Buy them anyway. Make a little effort, people …

29. KLUGSCHEISSEN

As a marketer, I was always told: Never let the truth get in the way of a good story. In Germany, it’s the opposite: Never let a good story get in the way of the truth. For Germans, truth is sacred and prayed to from the altar of fact.

Therefore, it’s also very important to correct other people when they say somefhing incorrect, no matter how small and utterly inconsequential it might be. They are wrong. You are aware of this. It’s your duty to inform them. This, the Germans call klugscheißen (‹smart shitting›, literally translated). Germans being whip-smart fact-lovers are world champions at the Klugscheiß.

If someone were to say, ‹Yeah, we were just in China at the end of October, we spent a week in Hong Kong and then in Shanghai,› they’d be immediately interrupted by their partner, who would correct them by saying, ‹It wasn’t October, we flew out on November 1st at 10:37 a.m. From Tegel. You bought a bagel in departures, remember? With cream cheese.›

‹Okay, November 1st. Fine. My bad.›

Then someone else wanting to join the Klugscheiß party would add, ‹Actually, Hong Kong is not a part of China like Shanghai. It’s a Special Administrative Region, which affords it certain legislative freedoms.›

‹Okay, we were in Shanghai and Hong Kong, which is a Special Administrative Region of China, affording it certain legislative privileges, for two weeks from the 1st November.›

‹Thirteen days. We were only there for thirteen days. Not two weeks.›

‹Hmmpfh. I give up.›

There are various tactics for dealing with being repeatedly klugscheißed: You can just stop saying anything ever and cite a fear of incorrectness as the reason for your vow of silence; or you can create a T-shirt that says, ‹It really doesn’t matter though, does it?›, which you can point at every time it happens; or you can accept that you can’t beat them and so should just join them, experiencing the great joy that can be found in not very delicately informing people of their minor factual incorrectness.

30. INTERROGATE JOKES

Germans have the unfortunate reputation of being humourless. That’s not true. German humour is like German bread: dark, dry, not to everyone’s taste, but in plentiful supply. The key difference between our two nations and their approach to funny is that Germans like their humour to make logical sense. In England there is the concept of a flippant remark. So, if it’s raining heavily, you can say ‹Nice weather for ducks,› and your conversation partner will just nod, or maybe even smile. They know that what you said makes little sense and is merely a silence eradicating bit of word fluff. A simple, bonding witticism to pass the time. It’s not important whether it makes sense. It does not require further thought. Until now, little Ausländer. Now it matters. Oh yeah. It matters a lot. To you. You’re German now. Don’t judge the joke primarily by how funny it is. That’s for amateurs. You’re going pro. Judge the joke firstly by how feasible it is. An offhand witticism at ducks liking rain should become a fifteen minute long analysis about the implausibility that ducks feel either one way or the other for any type of weather. Don’t just laugh at the silly things the Irishman does, enquire as to where the Englishman, Irishman and Scotsman met? Why would they board a plane with only one parachute? Is that even legal? How did they arrange a meeting with the Pope? Exactly why would a bear walk into a bar?

To be truly German you must subject even the shortest quip or joke to vigorous further questioning as if it were the prime suspect in a violent murder of sense and reason.

31. DON’T LIGHT YOUR CIGARETTES FROM A CANDLE

As a writer, I make money when people buy things I’ve scribbled all over. Like this book for example. Thanks for buying that, really kind of you. Sadly, there’s not that many of you book-buyers left. Not since some happy idiot invented motion picture, and things suddenly had to writhe around in front of us to be worthy of our attention. Then the Internet came along and told everyone that everything should be free. Then global time sink Facebook arrived and swallowed whatever spare time was left from a populace now too busy, too distracted to sit in a room quietly reading some old bits of dead tree. These days being a writer is mostly just an elaborate exercise in financial futility.

Does anyone care? No. Do Germans care? No. Should they care? No.

Yet there is one amusing and endangered minority that the Germans do try to protect. The humble sailor. Next time you find yourself in your local Raucherkneipe, try lighting your cigarette from a candle. There’s a good chance someone will make a kind of disapproving oooohhhh sound, tut or generally shake their heads in a disapproving manner. Because you just bankrupted another sailor. Nice one, asshole. The story of this amusing superstition is as follows: In the good old days of yesteryear, sailors were off plundering and trading and generally making nautical nuisances of themselves. Except in the lean winter months when, struggling for sailing jobs, they started selling matches to earn a living. So popular German logic dictates, by lighting a cigarette from a candle you are not using the matches of a sailor, and so depriving them of their living. Rendering them destitute. Some even say a sailor dies instantly the moment someone lights a cigarette from a candle. This is without factual merit and I suspect is a rumour started by sailors themselves.

Germans still believe that sailors should be exempt from the challenges of commerce. Until that changes, it will never be fine to light your cigarettes from a candle.

P. S. Did you know that every time you watch a YouTube clip a novelist dies? 100 % true. Step away from that cute cat video, murderer.

32. FENSTER AUF KIPP

There is a widespread belief in South Korea that sleeping in a closed room while a fan is on can cause death. Fan death it’s imaginatively called. While scientifically possible, it’s about as probable as winning every lottery on earth, all at once, whilst being struck by lightning. Still, it’s a widely held belief and, because of it, fans there are equipped with timers.

Germans have their own version of fan death. Because we’ve all praised German builders and engineers so much, many Germans have come to believe that they don’t build apartments and homes but air tight fortresses. As a result, many Germans believe Erstickungstod (death by suffocation) is a serious concern if fresh air is not regularly allowed to circulate in their Zwei-Zimmer-Wohnung. Therefore, German windows have been built with a special Kipp (tilt) mode, leaving the window approximately 10 % open, in a fixed position. Even in the dead of winter, it’s not uncommon to walk into a German’s bedroom and find the window kipped and the room cool enough to freeze meat. If not kipped, then regular Stoßlüftung (rush airing) is required. This is when you open the window fully for a short time to allow cold air to flood in and attack the evil, stale, warm air. This also explains why Germans are deeply distrustful of air conditioners, which just sit around mocking them, churning out old, recycled carbon dioxide.

The love of kipping can be quite a problem for international relationships. The English put an apartment’s heating on fully from the 1st October, then don’t touch it again until late April. We’re not used to a winter of Fenster auf Kipp. So we have to play a sort of heating tag with our German partners. In which we wait for them to go to sleep, quietly close the window they’ve had open all day, then put on the heating to drift off into a warm, toasty slumber. By morning the good times are over, as our spouses have awoken, surprised and thankful that they did not suffocate during the night, turned the heating immediately off, and reopened the window again.

Brrr. Get used to that cold feeling, you’re a Kipper now.

33. FEEL MIXED ABOUT BERLIN

Alright, young Ausländer. We can’t have you holed up in your stuffy Wohnung for too much longer. At some point you’ll have to get out there and explore all the exotic corners of this fine, large, Wurstparadies of a country. So let’s devote a few steps of this guide to helping you in your geographic endeavours. First up, Berlin.

The average German has a complex relationship to their Hauptstadt. Berlin is the black sheep of the German family. Creative, unpunctual, prone to spontaneous displays of techno, unable to pay its taxes, and overly familiar with foreigners. To many Germans, Berlin is not really their capital, but more like a giant art project or social experiment that only turns up when hung over and in need of a handout. To them, the true capital is probably somewhere more like Frankfurt. You know where you are with Frankfurt.

34. HATE BAVARIA

Every pantomime needs its villain. For Germany, the wicked witch is Bavaria. Firstly, it had the misfortune to be based right down there in the corner, far enough away that we can all say mean things about it and it won’t hear, and not central enough that it could claim real geographic importance. It then had the audacity to become the richest state, but not quietly and with humility, but in a gregarious, badly dressed, heavy drinking, God greeting, country bumpkin sort of way. It’s a source of wider German mirth since, while only one part of this huge country, it’s responsible for 91 % of all wider held German stereotypes and 100 % of the annoying, inaccurate ones.

35. HATE THE SAXONY DIALECT

There is one area of German life of which there is absolutely no debate. Where it seems that sometime ago a poll was taken, and there was a clear winner. The result was on Spiegel Online and so became a fact: The worst dialect in Germany is Sächsisch. It’s official; ask 100 people, 99 will immediately answer ‹Sächsisch›. People that speak it are not real Germans apparently, but yokels with speech impediments, just recently down from their caves in the mountains. When I tell somebody I studied German at the Volkshochschule Leipzig, a look of horror appears across my conversation partner’s face, as if they can’t believe they grant licences to language schools in saxony. It’s as if I just admitted learning parenting from Michael Jackson. Nu klar.

36. PICK A SIDE, RESPECT THE DIVIDE

The UK has a strange ‹will they, won’t they› relationship with the Continent, and you’ll often here us saying baffling things about ‹going on holiday to Europe.› You see, borders of the mind can live on for many years after any real, physical ones have come down. It’s the same here. More than twenty years after reunification, the East/West divide still lives on in the minds and prejudices of many Germans, well beyond the monthly payment of their Solidaritätszuschlag. It’s not uncommon to meet Germans who’ve never had more than a weekend trip to the other half of their country. This mental divide can be glimpsed in the occasional comment or an unusual phrasing like ‹A friend visited from the West,› or ‹Oh, they also have that in East Germany as well?›

Talking to some (particularly older) East Germans, you get the feeling they still think of the West not as another part of the same country, but as a sinister, capitalist McDonald’s theme park where it rains money and the gift shop never closes. Older West Germans, meanwhile, think East Germany is the bunker where Osama bin Laden was hiding out.

37. FAHRE SCHWARZ

In the UK, we know that the greatest risk to safety is complacency. The satisfied, complacent human is like the Neanderthal that relaxes after a big feed and settles down to sleep by the fire, only sleeps so deeply that they don’t hear the approaching lion. So, much like the USA, we treat our society as if it were a snow globe. Any time it looks like the snow is settling and everything is picturesque and tranquil, the government and media shake everything up again. Foiled terrorist plot! More CCTV cameras! Recession! Impending health epidemic! SARS! African bees!

What’s important is that people are freaked out and fearful. That’ll keep them alert, that’ll keep them safe. This is the reason why when a stranger talks to a child in a park, the parents now automatically assume the person to be a kidnapper or paedophile. It’s just safer that way.

Because of all this paranoia, when you ride the London Underground, security is bountiful and there’s always an aroma to the air, somewhere between depression and impending doom.

Let go of that fear now, young foreigner. In Germany, public transport is powered by trust. You may not have seen that word for a while, so I assure you it’s not a type of rust. It’s an act of faith, that means there are no security barriers here. There is a ticket machine. You buy your ticket. You ride the public transport. Or you don’t buy the ticket, and you can still ride the public transport. This is called schwarzfahren. The choice is yours. It’s a lovely, liberating thing. If you choose to do the dishonourable thing and not buy a ticket, that’s also okay. Despite being very rule-conscious people, many Germans fahren schwarz. Without shame. You’ll see ticket inspectors enter the carriage and, with a cheeky grin of recognition that they’re caught, all the Schwarzfahrers remove their ID cards and hold them out, ready for their fine. Not as if they’d just broken the law, but totally naturally and nonchalantly. As if a bill long expected has now arrived on their door mat, and now it’s time to pay.

38. GET QUALIFIED

Well, well, well. You’ve had quite some fun recently, right, my most daring Ausländer? Riding around with a valid ticket. Out cavorting with your new favourite nation folk in Bavaria and Berlin. Who’s going to pay for all those good times, then? You, of course. It’s time for your first tentative steps into German employment.

When I first moved here, I was given the following advice: ‹In England, it’s he who drinks the most and doesn’t vomit on his shoes that gets the girl. Here, it’s he who knows the most about philosophy that gets the girl.› That’s an exaggeration, but holds a kernel of truth.

Germans, on account of their excellent school system (at least in comparison to the English) and the extraordinarily long time they tend to study, are an intellectual bunch. As a result, they also tend to have a great number of qualifications.

Vanity always needs an audience, and intellectual vanity is no different. So the Germans needed to create situations in which they could gently remind other Germans how much more qualified they are than them. An outdated idea in English culture, where everything is on a first-name basis, where I am Adam, he is John, and it’s what’s in our head that shows our qualifications and intelligence. Here, it’s the letters before or after your full name, letters that are used when addressing each other, for example Herr Dr. or Frau Prof. Dr. h. c. Schmidt … none of this first name over-familiarity business. Even the humble doorbell offers an opportunity for neighbour one-upmanship, where academic qualifications can be listed.

You can expect occasional smirks and reassuring pats on the shoulder when you tell your German friends you only have a BA in Theatre Studies, as if they have a newly found respect for the fact you can already manage to dress yourself properly.

39. ENLARGE YOUR CV

You know when sometimes you’re online and you try to load a Webpage and it just sort of gets stuck. No biggie, you just wait and refresh and a couple of seconds later the page appears. Do you know why the tubes of the internet got clogged for those few seconds? I do. A German, somewhere, just emailed a prospective employer a copy of their CV. You see, German CVs are not like the CVs of other countries …

Towards the end of my university degree there was a special course about how to secure a job. We discussed interview techniques, networking, and CVs. The crafting of a real stand out CV. Those lessons consisted mostly of my teacher getting angry and yelling at us to make them shorter. Shorter, people, shorter! He’d parade statistics about how the average CV is read for just four seconds, and so we’d make them shorter again. As a result my CV is just four lines long, it says ‹I am a nice man. Good skills. Clean teeth. Hire me.› Then there’s my email address and a giant picture of a bespectacled unicorn.

That just doesn’t cut it here. To be a true German, your CV must be at least seventeen pages long, before appendices, of which there should be at least twenty. By now, English CVs are almost anonymous. We’re not even allowed to put our age on them anymore, in case it encourages ageism. Here, your German CV must begin with a professional model shot of yourself. Next it should move on to your academic qualifications. Put the oldest ones that noone cares about right up on top, like your Gymnasium grades. Don’t put any personal stuff in the CV. No-one’s interested in your hopes, dreams, or five-year plan. Just list the facts of your life, like an obituary for the still living. This is Germany – we peddle fact, not anecdote. Career charlatan. Then, include a scan of every certificate and qualification you have ever received. Came second in your school’s sports day high jump event back in 1998? Include it. It demonstrates your drive and commitment. Then move on to references. The more the merrier. To be on the safe side, you should get one from everyone you’ve ever met. After those, anything goes. Shopping list from 1987? That essay you wrote when you were nine about a particularly enjoyable summer holiday, for which you received a 1.0? Yeah. Stick those in. Got siblings? What’s your marital status? Children? What do your parents do? All vital information when assessing your ability to answer telephones in a call center. List everyone’s names, ages and jobs, just to be safe.

To be truly German is not to send prospective employers a CV, but a giant document; death by minutiae.

40. FIND A ‹REAL› JOB

Good news, fearless cultural ambassador, the German economy is rocking. You might yet avoid the baffling, Kafkaesque fortress of despair that is visiting the local Arbeitsagentur. Even in the East, where formerly struggling cities like Leipzig have redeveloped themselves into buzzing logistics hubs. So, armed with all those new qualifications and letters before your name, you’ll have no problems finding work. But not all work is equally prized. There is an unspoken scale of careers, known, but not acknowledged, by all Germans. Real jobs and not real jobs. For a profession to count in Germany, it should have existed for at least a hundred years, be vaguely scientific, or at least dense enough that it requires half a lifetime of study and the opportunity to acquire 67 different academic qualifications. It should be impenetrable to outsiders, and shielded in its own complex language. Ideally, it should also start with an e and end in ngineering. But other accepted professions are scientist, lawyer, doctor, teacher, something that involves organising things on a large scale, like logistics, or anything to do with cars. Otherwise, when people ask you about your job, the same will happen to you as happens to me. I reply ‹I’m a marketer,› at which point someone says, ‹that’s not really a job though, is it?›

41. FAIL AT SARCASM

It’s not easy being British. Bad genes, bad diet, tendency to apologise for everything, including apologising for always apologising for everything. What’s also difficult is that for reasons to do with Monty Python, everyone thinks all 60 million of us are Marmite-eating, stand-up comedians. That noone gets anything done, since we’re always doubled over, belly laughing at the hilarious quips of our islands’ compatriots. As a result, there’s social pressure on us to always be funny. After all, we’re British. You know, Monty Python, etc.

Germans suffer from the opposite problem. Humour is difficult for them because noone thinks they have any, so they have to work doubly hard to prove people wrong. Which often means, when someone makes a poor joke about Germans having no humour or says something inappropriate about the war, they have two options. Firstly, they can laugh even though it’s not funny, to prove Germans do have a sense of humour. Which only increases the odds that people will continue making those lame jokes. Which they’ll have to keep laughing at. Or, secondly, they don’t laugh, reinforcing the stereotype that Germans have no sense of humour. It’s a comedy Catch-22.

A similar problem confronts Germans attempting sarcasm. Sarcasm is not a popular part of German comedy. It’s mostly practised by international Germans who picked it up elsewhere like dengue fever for the funny bone and have been trying to infect their compatriots ever since. In my experience, there is about a 90 % chance any sarcasm attempt by a German will fail, because noone suspects they are trying to be sarcastic, and so everyone just takes them literally, which results in conversations like this one:

‹Yeah, well, in Finland every house keeps a penguin as a pet.›

‹Really?!? I never read that anywhere. Inside the house?›

‹No, don’t be silly …› (rolls eyes, adopts increasingly sarcastic tone) ‹in an igloo in the garden!›

Heads are shaken. ‹Really?!?! Das macht keinen Sinn.›

‹Yeah, REALLY. Penguins are the Finnish dog. They walk them on leads, it’s very normal to see penguins waddling along on their morning walk.›

‹Was that on Spiegel Online?›

‹Yeah, it was on Spiegel Online, they interviewed one of the penguins.›

‹Das ist nicht logisch. How can you interview a penguin?›

‹Oh, mein Gott! I was being sarcastic! Of course they don’t keep penguins as pets.›

In our friends group, we’ve got around this problem by creating a German-attempting-sarcasm-card. It’s not a real card, it’s more like an imaginary ceremonial card that you brandish above your head like a football referee would a red card. Then everyone knows to laugh at the sarcasm you are about to produce. Like air leaving a punctured bicycle tyre, it does let some of the fun out, but enables Germans to successfully partake in the pithy fun that is sarcasm.

42. LEARN TO ENJOY BUREAUCRACY

I really enjoy watching those slightly pompous period movies with kings, earls and knights. There’s always a point in which a messenger ‹must leave at once› with some wax-sealed, official correspondence to deliver, which he does, after riding all night, arriving, someone blowing a horn, a drawbridge is lowered, the messenger, out of breath, dismounts and says something overly formal like ‹I carry tidings from the house of Elrond.›

While it would be an exaggeration to say Germany is still like this, the Germans, like the people of that earlier time, do still revel in the ceremony of authority. They like to think of themselves as Dichter und Denker (poets and thinkers) but it would be perhaps more apt to label them Stampers and DINers. It’s as if they see bureaucracy’s red tape not so much as a restriction, but something offering them safe, secure padding against life’s sharper edges.

If Paperspiel was a sport, I feel confident in suggesting it’s the Germans who’d triumph at the Olympics. The Germans would be there, carrying their little wooden trees of stamps, and pulling a Handwagen stacked head high with all their different clips, hyper-specialised stationery, and official documents full of compound German legalese like die Rechtsschutzversicherungsgesellschaft (a company offering legal protection insurance).

It would be an annotated, sorted and highlight-filled drubbing.

43. GUT GUT, NAJA, ACH SO, ALLES KLAR & UND SONST SO

The German language can seem intimidating. Even with all that effort you’ve put in, you might become disheartened that you’ll never wrap your tongue around this most perplexing of lingos. Worry not. I’m going to help you now. I didn’t want to tell you about this language hack earlier, because you might not have put so much effort into learning German the traditional, painful way. Worry not, friend, you can speak German immediately, right now. Or at least most of it. The important, small talk parts. All you need are the five most spoken German phrases, which make up 60 % of spoken conversation. Gut, naja, ach so, alles klar and und sonst so. Whole conversations can be held using just these most flexible of German phrases, which can be combined into nearly any order:

‹Na?›

‹Ja.›

‹Ach so.›

‹Alles klar?›

‹Naja.›

‹Gut gut.›

Pause

‹Und sonst so?›

44. PRACTICALITY TRUMPS EVERYTHING

There’s one regular point of contention between my German girlfriend and me, which I think also hints at a wider ideological gap between the Germans and many other nations. A gap you may also have to jump on a regular basis. We call it English romanticism vs. German practicality. Anyone who has seen how English women dress for a winter’s night of partying will know that practicality is not a primary concern of ours. Like magpies, hoarding anything shiny, we evaluate things first by their aesthetic value, then, secondly (or not at all), by their practicality. Germans tend to value practicality above all else. This is why they regularly say things like:

‹Das ist doch unlogisch.›

‹Das macht aber keinen Sinn.›

‹Total unpraktisch.›

‹Wirklich sinnlos.›

Now, you don’t have to wait for someone to knock on the door and try to sell you a chocolate teapot before you say those. You can just say them in response to someone’s opinion you don’t agree with. That’s very normal here.

This cultural difference is most noticeable when discussing apartments. To be German, your response when asked about your apartment should be pure, naked facts. Like you’re not discussing a place where you raise your children, but reading a criminal’s charge sheet or medical prescription. It’s very important you know the exact euro per square metre price. Start with that. Then the total number of square meters and number of rooms. Then move on to the Kaltmiete (rent price), next the Nebenkosten (additional costs). Next is if it has a balcony. Then exact type of parquet flooring. All Germans appear to be experts on parquet flooring varieties and can discuss at length their individual merits. Important when you’ll only touch it with your houseshoes anyway. After that you can say where the apartment is geographically or if you actually like it. If you want. Up to you. After all, you’ve said all the important stuff already.

45. TRAVEL SERIOUSLY

Well, I’d say you’ve worked so hard fitting in, it’s time you take a little break. How about a foreign holiday? Sadly, travelling with/as a German is also problematic. If you’re going to behave correctly, oh cultural explorer, you’ve much to learn. See, new land = new risks. The first step of the German Projekt Urlaub is to understand the potential hazards of this foreign land and ensure they are negated through extensive insurances and proper travel equipment. Even a weekend excursion to the Baltic Sea may require the use of hightech hiking footwear with special soles, zip-off trousers, a drink canister, and a lot of those special hook things that climbers use. Maps must be printed. Routes planned. Backup routes found. Backup backup routes found.

On arrival in more distant lands Germans are often disappointed when they see these countries are just not run efficiently. Their disapproval will manifest in sentences like ‹They said the bus would leave at 6 p. m. It’s 6:15 p. m. already. Typisch!›, ‹A bathroom this badly ventilated is just a magnet for mould›, or ‹Is a simple split bill just too much to ask from these people?›

Germans abroad are part traveller, part Techniküberprüfungs-employee, tallying health and safety violations with their eyes, marking off locations of emergency exits and toilets. Arriving at a restaurant you’ll see them mentally arranging the furniture with their eyes for optimum Fluss (flow). Travelling is a little bit about getting to use all of the various foreign languages they know, but mostly an opportunity to be reminded firsthand about just how much better everything already is in Germany.

46. KNOW THAT BIRTHDAYS ARE SERIOUS BUSINESS

In Germany birthdays are not just a convenient excuse to eat cake, be asked repeatedly annoying questions about how it feels to be a day older, then get drunk and pass out under a pile of coats. No, here, celebrating your birthday is serious business. In fact, the possibility of you committing a social faux pas is so high, it’s maybe better to cancel the whole thing and just age silently without fanfare. Firstly, know that you have to bring cake into the office for everyone. Even though it’s your birthday and people should really do the nice things for you. Not the other way round. It’s also vitally important you celebrate only on the exact day. Growing up in the UK, we were allowed to pick which day would be our birthday. So if it was a Tuesday, we could just move it to the weekend before. That became our birthday. We had our presents, people wished us happy birthday, we had a party. Then Tuesday would arrive and be treated just as any other Tuesday. After all, we had our birthday on the previous Saturday. Birthdays were just abstract concepts that meant it was socially acceptable to wear party hats and hog all the limelight.

In Germany you don’t just go moving your birthday. You were born on the 1st March. That is your birthday. That is the day of your birth. That specific date commemorates your expulsion from your mother’s body. You can change the day of your birth just as successfully as you can grow a second nose. So don’t even try, liar. If you do have to move the day for logistical reasons, only move it to a date after your real birthday. Because being wished a happy birthday before your real birthday is considered terrible luck here. Judging by the level of superstition afforded to it, it must increase the chances of you dying before your real birthday by about 74 %. It’s also important that you know the exact time to the minute that you were born. So you can celebrate your birthday more truthfully and precisely, which is, after all, what’s really important.

47. WATCH DINNER FOR ONE ON NEW YEAR’S EVE

If I told you that one night of the year, all the German TV channels play the same movie, on a loop, for a whole evening, you’d probably think … why? Or, that must be quite some movie. Is it Jaws 2? I liked that one best.

I’m not quite sure why, and no, it’s not Jaws 2. In fact it’s an English movie, and even more surprising is that they don’t dub it. But it’s not an English movie any English person has heard of. Should you walk the high streets of England and conduct a survey, asking people which English movie is so loved that on one night of the year all the German TV channels play it on a loop, I feel confident in suggesting this movie would not make the list at all. It’s an English movie that English people don’t know is an English movie. Or even a movie. Or even a thing.

It’s an obscure black and white live performance of an English comedy called Dinner for One. They’ve been showing it on New Year’s Eve here for around forty years. I know Germans who claimed to have watched it nearly all forty of those years, sometimes several times in one evening. Watching it is an inherited custom, done by the young and the old. Since it’s on nearly every channel, it’s hard to ignore. Even if you’re attending a New Year’s Eve party, it’ll probably be on in the background, like an old friend who pops in just once a year and in whose honour you have a little gathering.

Noone seems exactly sure why or how watching Dinner for One became a New Year’s Eve institution. I have a theory. I think it’s fairly obvious the executives of the TV channels felt guilty about all the horrible dubbed shows they force upon the masses over the year, and so they got together to make amends, agreeing that all of the channels would offer one movie in English, on a loop, for an entire evening. It’s like those freezing cold plunge pools you find at saunas. A short, sharp immersion, then back to normal. They picked New Year’s Eve because they figured noone would be sitting around watching TV. It’s Germany after all, everyone will be off dancing, giddy from schnapps, or out blowing things up, right? Well, kind of. Which leads me to my next step …

48. FORGET ANYTHING YOU WERE EVER TOLD ABOUT FIREWORKS

Three quarters of the movie The Wicker Man are about a foreigner investigating a strange land in which nice, hospitable, but slightly strange people keep getting naked. Then, while he is still trying to understand that, suddenly there’s a festival and everyone goes completely insane. While he’s trying to restore order and remind everyone just how dangerous their behaviour is, they not only ignore him, but drag him off somewhere, and then set him on fire.

This is not the plot of a fictional movie. It’s the accurate description of Silvester (New Year’s Eve) in Germany.

In England, we’re taught that apart from wrestling a lion while you are smeared in peanut butter, or doing absolutely anything whilst it’s snowing, the single most dangerous thing you can do is set off fireworks. Each time you set one off, there’s about a 50 % chance you’ll die, instantly. I don’t know if that’s related to the fireworks themselves, or if a long time ago someone placed a gypsy curse on the English and we’ve been busy blowing our-selves up ever since. Fireworks are so dangerous that we have national TV commercial campaigns just to remind us about the dangers of using sparklers. Yes, sparklers. I think more people receive injuries a year from pillow fights or falling coconuts than from sparklers. Here, I’ve seen people light sparklers in the middle of a dense concert crowd, use them on cakes, even fighting them indoors. Indoors! Unthinkable.

I once saw someone deliberately fire a rocket at a woman riding a bike. It hit her on the chest. She shrieked. It just sort of bounced off and fizzled out. This was quite an anticlimax. My English education had taught me that she should have spontaneously combusted, and then he would go immediately to prison for such an act of obvious terrorism.

New Year’s Eve in Germany is the evening in which all the nice, normal, practical, risk-averse people are replaced by gun-powder-touting, death wish-seeking pyromaniacs. Running around lighting fireworks with reckless abandon. Sections of the country become much like downtown Baghdad on market day. In Germany, leaving the house on New Year’s Eve is like stepping into a giant, 80 million person multiplayer game of Bomberman.

Perhaps the only comfort that can be taken from it is that if anything does go wrong, everyone is suitably insured.

49. HATE SCHLAGER, KNOW EVERY WORD

If you’ve ever seen the 1999 movie Idle Hands, you’ll know there’s a rare condition called Alien Hand Syndrome, in which a person’s hand develops a will of its own, actively working against the wishes of its owner. Germans suffer from a lesser known but equally debilitating condition, similar to Alien Hand Syndrome, only affecting their entire body. It’s called Schlageritis.

You’ll be sitting with them in a beer garden somewhere. It’ll reach that time in the party when someone will put on some Schlager. You’ll see the symptoms of Schlageritis grip your German comrades immediately. First, they’ll make a combination of grunting, moaning, complaining noises before telling you how much they hate Schlager, and how it’s the musical equivalent of having your intelligence repeatedly insulted for three minutes, except over an artificial drum beat. Ignore them. This is an attempt to distance themselves from their Schlageritis. It’s denial. Next, you’ll notice they start moving their hands a little. Almost against their will. Then they’ll try to keep talking normally but accidentally one or two of the lyrics will slip out of their mouths. Every German automatically knows every word to every Schlager song. It’s inherited knowledge, passed down in their genes, like tribes of the rainforest who know instinctively which plants you can eat and which will make you into lumpy, dead human soup.

They’ll try to fight back against their developing symptoms. To get control of their hands they might sit on them, before talking loudly about some new insurance they’ve found. Or they’ll try to distract themselves by making a joke. Maybe they’ll suggest someone should invent Schlager insurance, which pays out compensation every time anyone is forced to hear a Schlager song. By now they’ll be squirming uncomfortably in their seats, as their bodies are trying to force them up and out dancing, singing, prosting strangers.

It’s at this point that they have only two options left. They can remind you once more how much they hate Schlager and then force you to leave with them. Or they can give in to Schlageritis and just relax into the party. Usually they pick to leave. If they pick the second option they do it sneakily, by trying to disguise their enjoyment as being ironic. Schlager music is so bad I’ll mock it by pretending it’s good. Look at my big fake grin! Aren’t I having fun? Lalalalalala, ‹I’ve ne Zwiebel auf dem Kopf, I’m a Döner,› hey!

Do not be fooled, Ausländer, they’re loving it. You must too.

50. SAY TSSSSSSSSSSSSCHÜÜ-HÜSSSSSSSSS

So, like all good things, even this fun little exposé of German culture must come to an end. I’m proud of you, my little Ausländer, for making it through the first 49 steps. Is it still right to call you an Ausländer? No! I don’t think so. Not anymore. You’re obviously really trying to fit into a country not renowned for giving the warmest of welcomes to its foreigners. Your commitment and enthusiasm is highly commendable. No doubt you’ve already enlarged your CV, lengthened your breakfast, and gained more qualifications. You’re a credit to this fine, credit-worthy country. Congratulations! My little honorary German. So then, with sadness and final thank you for having read this far, the only thing left for me to do is say ‹Tsssssssssssschüüüühüsssssssss,› which is step 50.

With the exception of Oktoberfest, Germany is not famous for its excesses. It’s actually rightly appreciated for its modesty and humility. Fine, fine traits. While us Brits were out living it up on bank-sponsored credit, spending hundreds of thousands of pounds on these little boxes where we’d house ourselves, the Germans stayed in their rented homes, in their beloved kitchens. There is, however, one area where they really like to let their collective hair down, where they can get really wild and flamboyant, and that’s when saying the word tsssssssssssssssssssss sssssssssssssssssssssssssssschhhhhhhhhhhhhhüüüüüüühüüssssssssssssssssssss.

I’m not exactly sure how many letters long the word ttttttttttt ttttttttssssssssssssssssssssssscccccccccchhhhhhhhhüüüü-hüüssssssssss is, but I’m pretty sure you can’t lay it in a game of Scrabble. It should take approximately five seconds to say and be delivered not in your voice, but in one you’ve borrowed from a slightly better, more musical, pitch-perfect version of yourself.

Tssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssschhhhhhhhhhhh hhüüüü-hüüsssssssssssssssssss, honorary German, tsssssssssssss sssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssschhhhhhhhhhhhhhüüüühüüsssssssssssssssssss.

First edition. 2013
© Verlag C.H.Beck oHG, München 2013
Cover design and cover illustration: Robert M. Schöne
ISBN book 978 3 406 65364 3
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Table of Contents

- TITLE
- ABOUT THE BOOK
- ABOUT THE AUTHOR
- ABOUT THE ILLUSTRATOR
- INTRODUCTION
- 1. PUT ON YOUR HOUSE SHOES
- 2. EAT A LONG BREAKFAST
- 3. PLANNING, PREPARATION & PROCESS
- 4. GET SOME INSURANCES
- 5. DRESS SERIOUSLY
- 6. SPEAK GERMAN
- 7. OUTGESOURCED, DOWNGELOADED & UPGEGRADED
- 8. OBEY THE RED MAN
- 9. DRINK APFELSAFTSCHORLE
- 10. DRINK MIXED BEVERAGES
- 11. EAT GERMAN FOOD
- 12. KNOW YOUR POTATOES
- 13. THE ANSWER IS TO BRING KARTOFFELSALAT
- 14. EAT GERMAN BREAD
- 15. ‹MAHLZEIT!›
- 16. HATE THE GEZ & GEMA

- 17. LEARN HOW TO OPEN A BEER BOTTLE WITH ANYTHING BUT A BOTTLE OPENER

- 18. SAY WHAT YOU MEAN
- 19. SPEAK FREELY ABOUT SEX
- 20. DO NOTHING ON SUNDAYS
- 21. WATCH TATORT

- 22. IT IS NOT TRUE UNTIL YOU’VE READ IT AT SPIEGEL ONLINE

- 23. ALWAYS SEND FRIENDLY GREETINGS
- 24. PROST!!!
- 25. DRINK BIONADE, BUY BIO
- 26. RECYCLE
- 27. STICK TO THE RULES
- 28. LOVE YOUR CAR
- 29. KLUGSCHEISSEN
- 30. INTERROGATE JOKES

- 31. DON’T LIGHT YOUR CIGARETTES FROM A CANDLE

- 32. FENSTER AUF KIPP
- 33. FEEL MIXED ABOUT BERLIN
- 34. HATE BAVARIA
- 35. HATE THE SAXONY DIALECT
- 36. PICK A SIDE, RESPECT THE DIVIDE
- 37. FAHRE SCHWARZ
- 38. GET QUALIFIED
- 39. ENLARGE YOUR CV
- 40. FIND A ‹REAL› JOB
- 41. FAIL AT SARCASM
- 42. LEARN TO ENJOY BUREAUCRACY

- 43. GUT GUT, NAJA, ACH SO, ALLES KLAR & UND SONST SO

- 44. PRACTICALITY TRUMPS EVERYTHING

- 45. TRAVEL SERIOUSLY

- 46. KNOW THAT BIRTHDAYS ARE SERIOUS BUSINESS

- 47. WATCH DINNER FOR ONE ON NEW YEAR’S EVE

- 48. FORGET ANYTHING YOU WERE EVER TOLD ABOUT FIREWORKS

- 49. HATE SCHLAGER, KNOW EVERY WORD
- 50. SAY TSSSSSSSSSSSSCHÜÜ-HÜSSSSSSSSS
- IMPRESSUM